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Brian Caulkins
Psychology 350

March 10, 2009

Reflection for Alternative Spring Break – Day #3

Today started out later than normal. We didn’t get on the road until ten till eight. Both groups were working together today. We worked at the Nashville Rescue Mission today. The first project that I worked on was separating different shirts by their sizes. I don’t know how many boxes we went through, but I do know that there were a lot of them. Most of the clothing was dress shirts. I guess a lot of people donate dress clothes because not as many people wear them as much. I worked on sorting clothing until lunch. I told myself that every time that I ate at the rescue mission that I will eat all the food on my plate so that I get the full effect of how eating at the shelter was like. So far I have eaten everything on my tray. Sometimes it has been tuff because the food is not what I am used to.

After lunch I started working down in the basement of the rescue mission. The basement of this place is huge. It has to be as big as Lowes, but not as tall. It was filled with items that varied from food to pianos. The basement was the storage area for the building. What we did the rest of the day was basically cleaning and sorting the items in the basement. Since there are not very many guys on this trip, most of the more strenuous work is handed to us. Eric and I emptied the cardboard bins and carried old books out to the dumpsters. There were a ton of books and cardboard. During this time a person in the program was helping us. I didn’t really know if he appreciated our help or not, but as the day went along I started to see the gratitude of the help. Derrick was his name. I started asking questions about how long he had been in the program and how he liked it. I wouldn’t say he opened up but he did tell me what I asked him. This was his second time through the program. He was 16 when he went through the first program. He told me that the first program didn’t work and that he had been with Nashville Rescue Mission since December 11.

I liked working with him and all the other people in the program. You would be surprised how many people are so grateful for the help. There was this one guy that would always be very gracious that we were helping the organization. He jokingly would say that he was going to come to West Virginia to bring us back.

One of the frustrating things I went through today was the basement. The basement was so big and it felt like the team and I would never get any of it done. It took me a while to understand that this was a long term project. All the projects we are working on are going to take it while. One of the positive things that I went through today was towards the end of the day. Right before we were ready to wrap things up and head back, Derrick made it his mission to say bye and thank us for the help. I feel that it would take a lot for somebody in his situation to take the time to make sure that we were thanked. I felt like I made a connection with him and was able to help the rescue mission and be a positive influence in Derrick’s life.